to idgaf anonymous: i've felt the same way for many years. "genderqueer" and "genderfluid" have actually turned into terms of convenience for me as they are the closest "labels" i can find. but what i like to think about instead is what audre lorde said, "“If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.” so if idgaf works for you-- go with it. Rather than try to find something the world understands, make the world understand YOU.

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